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Another year with my cute family

Another year with my cute family.

2025 wasn’t a great year for many people. For us, I’d call it an “okay” year—and honestly, okay still carried plenty of warmth. When I look back, what stands out most are the wholesome, silly moments: hosting our first friends’ dinner, and Joy and Dyson splashing around in a tiny kiddie pool like it was the best day on earth.

As the years pass, remembering a specific point in time gets harder. That’s why I’ve learned to **keep a few key moments—little anchors—**that can bring you back instantly. Photos help. Objects help. And for me, art helps most.

A Visual Time Capsule: Our Growing A to Z Art Collection

I’m a visual person, so this growing collection of A to Z illustrations has become my way of holding onto the moments that matter. It’s also a gift I love giving Angel—something meaningful, personal, and tied to the life we’re building together.

This year’s piece symbolizes:

The hope I have for our growth in Montour Falls
The love of our puppy babies (Joy and Dyson)
Building our next chapter with the Goldenrod Inn

And yes—there’s an Easter egg in the illustration: can you spot the goldenrod in the artwork?

Why This Matters to Me

It’s easy to let time blur. But I don’t want these years to disappear into a vague “back then.” I want to remember the tiny, ridiculous details—the laughter, the chaos, the small wins, the ordinary days that turn out to be the important ones.

This artwork is one of the ways I’m choosing to remember.

What I’m Looking Forward To

Montour Falls continues to feel like possibility. The Goldenrod Inn feels like a dream that’s turning into something real—step by step. If 2025 was “okay,” my hope is that the next chapter is steadier, brighter, and built with intention.

If you’re building something too—whether it’s a home, a family, a business, or just a better year—I’m rooting for you. 👨🏻‍❤️‍👨🏽🏳️‍🌈🐶

Bastianilkk Sabastian Delgado Illustration - Original

Bastianilkk Sabastian Delgado Illustration - framed

Illustration by Sebastián Delgado

Just checking in and saying hello

Just checking in to say hello.

A quiet frame in black and white, the world simplified to light and shade. I hold the day at arm’s length and let it answer back with a face, a breath, proof that I was here. No big story—just the ordinary, shown as it is.

It’s just on an October afternoon. The air has that early-fall hush; even the pixels seem to exhale. When color steps aside, lines get honest. Grain gathers where chatter would be, and the small things have room to speak.

I think about how often we wait for the right moment and miss the real one. Today I take the real one. A small wave from the edge of a week, a pause long enough to listen, a reminder that presence can be enough.

Hello, from me to you. Be well. Be kind. Stand as you are. ️‍ ✌️

Happy 6th Wedding Anniversary

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Happy 6th wedding anniversary.

Six years is a long walk that somehow still feels like the first turn out of the door. Thought we have moved as many years as we’ve been married, the one thing that hasn’t changed is waking up to my best friend every day. My adventures keep becoming more exciting, detailed and creative and sharing them with Angel and our fur-babies is a blast! Here’s to another adventure right around the corner!

From A to Z, it’s the whole alphabet of a life: arrivals, allergies, afternoons; zeal, zero days, and the zinnias planted this spring! A to Z illustrations

Illustration from Prince & Ben

Nintendo Switch2 is here!

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Holding the sleek new Nintendo Switch 2, I’m feeling that familiar rush of nostalgia mixed with excitement—it’s like greeting an old friend who’s had an amazing glow-up. Unlike those cozy winter days of my childhood spent gaming indoors while snow blanketed everything outside, summer’s warmth now invites new adventures and portable fun.

The Nintendo Switch 2 feels like a natural evolution of everything I loved about my first Switch. Memories of cozy winter afternoons gaming inside contrast pleasantly with my current vision of breezy summer evenings, playing games on the patio or at the beach. Nintendo has perfected the art of creating worlds that effortlessly pull you in, making any setting—hot or cold—the perfect escape.

With enhanced graphics and features, the Switch 2 promises immersive experiences that are brighter, more vibrant, and refreshingly lifelike. As the summer sun warms up my gaming sessions, this new console reminds me just how far we’ve come—and how exciting it is to imagine the many adventures awaiting.

Here’s to sunny days, cool nights, and endless gaming possibilities!

An Extraordinary Birthday Dinner and Date Night at Masa

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Join us on a culinary journey that perfectly combines elegance, artistry, and exceptional flavors. Zachary’s recent birthday celebration at Masa was truly an unforgettable experience. As we stepped into the warm ambiance of the restaurant, the allure of freshly-prepared sushi peaked our appetite and memories of our trip to Japan.

With each bite, we could taste the meticulous craftsmanship and passion that goes into every dish. The exquisite presentation of the sushi, delicately placing pieces on a beautiful hinoki wood counter, showcased the chef’s dedication to perfection. Each morsel was a harmonious blend of flavors and textures, leaving us craving more.

It was not only the food that made the evening memorable. The intimate setting and impeccable service created an atmosphere of tranquility and romance. Surrounded by the soft glow of dimmed lights and the gentle murmur of conversation, we felt transported to a world where time stood still. Angel selected a great Sake to cap the experience.

As we enjoyed our meal together, the love and connection between us seemed to grow, deepening the meaning of this special occasion. The company of my partner, their hand in mine, made the evening even more extraordinary – a date night like no other.

In this delightful gastronomic adventure, Masa has undoubtedly earned its place in the prestigious Michelin Guide. Combining traditional techniques with innovative twists, their culinary creations are a testament to the artistry and skill of their talented team.

If you’re seeking a memorable dining experience that transcends the ordinary, look no further than Masa. Whether it’s a celebration or a romantic night out, Masa will leave you with cherished memories and a profound appreciation for the art of sushi.

Some facts we learned while dining at Masa:

The hinoki Counter has a top layer sanded down between every seating
Chef Masa arranged all of the floral accents locally in NY state (several people have fallen into the pond around it LOL)
Both Masa and Per Se opened the same year as some of the first restaurants in Columbus Circle mall in 2004.
All of the dinging-ware at Masa is designed by Chef Masa and Masa Design
Chef Masa also owns his own fishing company in Japan to import/export fresh fish worldwide

Masa Menu for 11/29/2023

Appetizers

Stone Crab with Uni Aioli
Toro Tartare with Osetra Caviar
Buri Sashimi, Wild Caught Yellowtail with Ponzu
Roasted Uni Half Shell – Sea Urchin, White Miso Custard, Truffle Grilled Akamutsu, Sea Perch
Ohmi Beef Tataki with White Truffle
Tai Soup

Sushi Courses

Toro – fatty tuna belly
Hirame – fluke
Tai – sea bream
Kinmedal – golden eye snapper
Ika – squid
Amaebi – sweet shrimp
Hotate- Scallop
Awabi – abalone
Suji – grilled toro sinew & scallion
Foie Gras
Saba- Japanese Mackerel
Sayori – needle fish
Shiitake mushroom
Anago – sea water eel
Kuruma Ebi – tiger prawn
Hokkaido Uni – sea urchin
White Truffle (this is the only sour note – this should have been excluded)
Negi Toro – fatty tuna, scallion, nori
Ume Shiso – pickled lotus root, shiso, sour plum

Dessert

Seasonal Fruit with Soba-cha tea
We actually were served a Matcha Crepe Cake from Lady M

A Scenic Hike in Virginia: Embracing the Beauty of Fall

Take a break from the hustle and bustle of everyday life and embark on a picturesque adventure in Virginia. Our recent hike in the stunning Virginia landscape left us in awe of nature’s beauty and left us with memories to cherish. The image captured during our expedition perfectly encapsulates the essence of the season—with vibrant hues of orange and yellow painting the trees, and fallen leaves scattered on the trails.

As we ventured deeper into the wilderness, the crisp autumn air filled our lungs, invigorating us with a sense of tranquility. The combination of the vibrant foliage and the peaceful surroundings made this hike a truly remarkable experience.

Virginia’s diverse terrain offered a variety of trails to explore, making it suitable for hikers of all levels. Whether you are a seasoned hiker or just starting your outdoor journey, there are options that cater to your preferences and abilities. Our chosen trail unveiled breathtaking panoramic views, boasting rolling hills and expansive forests.

The autumnal palette accompanied us throughout the hike, creating a scenic backdrop that seemed almost surreal. The rustling of leaves under our feet provided an enchanting soundtrack as we soaked up the tranquility of the surroundings.

If you’re craving a nature-filled escapade, Virginia is a destination that cannot be overlooked. With its captivating trails and vibrant fall foliage, this state is an outdoor enthusiast’s haven. So, put on your hiking boots, immerse yourself in the vibrant colors of the season, and embark on your own adventure in the stunning wilderness of Virginia.

Exploring the Odessa-Hector Rail Trail: Scenic Walk with the Boys

#park #railstotrails #ny

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Are you longing for a refreshing outdoor trail adventure that will captivate your senses and rejuvenate your soul? Look no further than the enchanting Odessa-Hector Rail Trail, which winds its way along the border of our idyllic property. Prepare to embark on an unforgettable journey through breathtaking natural landscapes and immerse yourself in the tranquility offered by this hidden gem.

As I strolled along the trail, accompanied by my two faithful furry friends, a sense of serenity washed over me. The vibrant foliage of the towering trees provided a picturesque backdrop, creating an awe-inspiring symphony of colors. Every step offered a new discovery, a new opportunity to appreciate the beauty of the world around us.

The Odessa-Hector Rail Trail holds the promise of unearthing remarkable sights at every turn. From charming park areas, perfect for a quick picnic or a moment of respite, to a rich tapestry of wildlife that graces the trail with their joyful presence, this place has it all. The harmonious blend of nature’s wonders and the gentle ambiance of the rail trail makes it an ideal spot for both relaxation and adventure.

With our faithful companions bounding alongside us, tails wagging in joyful unison, every moment on the trail became extraordinary. The camaraderie between humans and their four-legged companions was evident, as friends and families paraded along the path, sharing laughter and creating cherished memories.

The Odessa-Hector Rail Trail beckons you to set aside the hustle and bustle of everyday life and embrace the simple pleasures that nature provides. So, lace up your hiking shoes, grab a leash, and join us on a blissful journey through this rustic paradise. Discover the true meaning of connection, whether it be with nature, loved ones, or a deeper self-appreciation. You won’t regret it, I promise.

Come one, come all. Let’s lose ourselves in the tranquil embrace of the Odessa-Hector Rail Trail. Experience the magic, the serenity, and the boundless joys that await those willing to explore.

Thankful for these great people we meet while living in BK

Brooklyn always has a way of pulling us back into its rhythm. On this trip, that rhythm led us to an easy, familiar night at The William Vale, tucked into their downstairs outdoor patio—cocktails in hand, city buzzing softly around us, and our puppy Dyson right by our side.

We were in town for a work event and finally stayed at a hotel we’ve long admired and hosted events at, but never actually experienced as guests. Being able to slow down and enjoy The William Vale as a home base made the trip feel different—less transactional, more like stepping back into a version of our Brooklyn life.

The night became even better once friends joined. I was sitting with Carmen and Dwayne, two people deeply woven into our everyday history here. Carmen has been Dyson’s long-time dog walker, his best friend, and even brought him to our wedding. Dwayne used to work at the coffee shop across from our old place on North 10th Street—someone we saw nearly every day, until daily hellos turned into real friendship.

After dinner, we regrouped for a casual cocktail, catching up, laughing, and letting the night unfold naturally. No agenda, no rush—just one of those Brooklyn evenings that reminds you why the city sticks with you long after you leave.

Moments like this aren’t about landmarks or hype. They’re about people, shared history, and returning to places that still feel like home. Every time we’re back, Brooklyn gives us exactly what it’s best at: connection, familiarity, and just enough surprise to keep us coming back.

I wore a suite & spoke about my digital agency

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As the owner of a digital marketing agency, I recently had the pleasure of attending an exciting event alongside the Productsup team, representing my agency called zamartz consulting. After being in the virtual space for the past two years, it was a bit nerve-wracking to get back into public speaking, but once I started, it felt like I hadn’t missed a beat.

During my talk, I had the opportunity to share my 10+ years of experience working with Productsup and how we have helped numerous clients improve their business processes through this powerful tool. Combining our expertise in digital marketing and eCommerce with this partnership has proven to be a winning combination.

I also delved into one of the hottest tech topics of today – “generative A.I.” I discussed some of our favorite tools in this field that have been incredibly useful for us:

AIPRM = Prompt Library You can find more information about this tool at: AIPRM Website
Zapier = Connector Discover how Zapier can integrate with ChatGPT and enhance your workflow: Zapier Integrations
Google = Document AI Assistant Explore the capabilities of Google’s Document AI Assistant in this blog post: Google Workspace Blog – Generative AI
Rainforest QA = AI Assertions Learn how to leverage AI Assertions with Rainforest QA: Rainforest QA – How to Use AI Assertions

I would love to hear from you about your favorite A.I. tools or any exciting ways you’re incorporating them into your daily work life. While some of the technology may still be in its early stages, we remain optimistic about the new opportunities these tools will create for digital marketing.

I want to give special thanks and recognition to Brad and CEO Vincent Peters from Productsup for their support and collaboration. I’d also like to mention Sherry Shi from TikTok for providing us with a sneak preview of TikTok Shop, which has great potential for marketers.

Feel free to share your thoughts or ask any questions in the comments section. I look forward to engaging with you!

Ken & Joey, Welcome to Married Life

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My good friends Joey and Ken got married this year around the same time vaccinations rolled out. It was a scary time to be flying, but after doing our part to stay safe, Angel and I flew to Austin, Texas to celebrate our friends’ union.

We had planned out the trip months ago, and while traveling, we made sure to exercise caution and be fastidious with our hand sanitizer. At the airport and on the plane, we wore our face shields, masks, and gloves. In Texas, we rented our own car to keep and maintain that all-important six feet of social distancing.

Though wary, I ended up really liking Austin. During our stay, the weather was perfect each day. We spent a lot of our time dining outside or choosing restaurants still in accordance with mass mandates and six-foot-apart safety measures, though at that time Texas had dropped their restrictions. We still felt pretty safe.

Joey and Ken’s wedding was held at the Austin Motel, a gay-friendly hotel decked out in neon lights. Each room was themed; ours was decorated with lip-print motifs and a bright red leather headboard on the bed. We had rented a red Mustang for the trip, so we definitely fit in at the hotel!

There was a courtyard next to the main building. On our first day, we gathered there for a meet-and-greet cocktail hour. That’s also where the on-site clinic was, where all wedding guests were required to receive a COVID-19 test. The entire wedding party was vaccinated, but since the vaccines had just been rolled out, not everyone in attendance had been able to receive their second or even first dose. Everyone was then required to participate in an on-site test. Without the test results, you weren’t allowed to remove your mask.

Everything was very well thought-out. No surprise for Ken and Joey! The courtyard during that first happy hour was beautiful; cocktails and finger foods were served

The next day, a brunch was held for all wedding guests. Later that afternoon was the wedding. The event was entirely outdoors, at The Contemporary Austin. The ceremony took place under a tree-covered amphitheater overlooking a lake. At the end of the wedding, Ken and Joey ran through a sparkler runway to where a pickup truck driven by a drag queen was waiting. As they stood on the bed of the truck, giant fireworks shot up into the air while monster trucks drove by in a cloud of billowing red smoke.

At the after-party, the Austin Motel lit up their swimming pool with neon lights for a late dip. There was fast food to eat, and time for Ken and Joey’s close family and friends to wind down after the excitement of the day.

It was a great wedding, full of great people. I’m so happy for Ken and Joey and wish them lots of luck and love. Welcome to married life!

4 Years of Nintendo Switch and I’m still loving it!

Just found this old selfie of myself from four years ago—the day I got my hands on my original Nintendo Switch. I look excited, right? Well, I might seem a tad underwhelmed in the photo, but trust me, I was beyond thrilled!

Gaming has always been my go-to escape when life piles on the responsibilities. There’s something special about diving into another world, tackling challenges, and hitting those rewarding milestones. Sometimes it’s not even about the deeper stuff; it’s purely for fun. After all, a little gaming downtime never hurt anyone—balance, right?

I might not dive into The Legend of Zelda as often as I used to, but every time I pick it up, I’m transported back to that day I first powered on my Switch. The excitement, the adventure, and how quickly I got lost in the world—it’s all still fresh.

Now with the Nintendo Switch 2 on the horizon, I can’t wait for what’s next. Here’s to more gaming adventures ahead!

Weekend Selfie mode

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I think every home has a good “selfie spot.” I finally discovered mine while I was packing up my things, and getting ready to move to a new place. The sun always seems to shine brighter on the weekends. On this day, it beamed through the blinds on our kitchen window. So, I stood there and got my sun-kissed selfie.

When a picture is in black and white, it makes subtle details stand out more. The contrast between my eyes was prominent, even without color. One of my eyes was lit up by the sun, making my iris shimmer like a gemstone.

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