Oysters round two

Oysters round two.

There’s something quietly satisfying about a table that doesn’t ask much of you. A wide metal tray mounded with ice, shells cradled open like small tides held still, a lemon wedge waiting off to the side. A little bowl of pink salt in the center like punctuation.

We went back for another round in Seattle, and it felt less like “going out” and more like settling into a moment. The kind where you stop scanning the room and start listening—to the scrape of a fork, the low murmur of conversation, the way cold air clings to a fresh shuck.

Each oyster tasted slightly different, as if the water can’t help but tell a story in variations: briny, sweet, clean, metallic in a way that somehow works. The ice kept everything sharp and bright. The wine didn’t try to steal the show; it just kept pace.

Round two is rarely about hunger. It’s about leaning into what’s already good—repeating a small pleasure until it becomes a memory you can return to later. For a little while, the day narrowed down to shells, salt, and that first cold bite.

Piña Colada in Paradise

There’s a particular kind of quiet that shows up on vacation—right after you sit down, right before the first sip. The table is warm from the day, the chairs still holding the shape of whoever lingered there last, and everything feels briefly unhurried.

In front of us: piña coladas, pale and smooth, dressed simply with orange slices and cherries. Condensation gathers and slips down the glass like the air itself is exhaling. Nearby, a darker drink sits heavy with ice, catching the light in its own way—like a pause between sweeter things.

Paradise isn’t always a postcard. Sometimes it’s a small scene that keeps living alongside you: wicker chairs, a wooden tabletop, the soft clink of glass, and the sense that time has agreed to slow down for an hour.

“Piña Colada in Paradise” is really about that feeling—the ordinary details made brighter by distance from routine. A shared drink, an easy seat, a moment that doesn’t ask to be improved.

If you’re reading this from somewhere colder or busier, hold onto the idea: sun-warmed wood, a creamy sip, and the simple permission to stay put a little longer.

Sunday Morning with Bae

Two cups on a small table feel like a small weather system: warmth rising, quiet settling, the morning widening out as if it has all the time in the world.

There’s something gentle about the way breakfast arrives in pieces. A cookie the size of a palm, a scone split like a soft secret, a pastry browned at the edge—simple things that turn a sidewalk table into a little room of its own. You don’t need much more than that. Not when the city is still stretching awake, and the air carries that faint scrape of the street, distant and ordinary.

“Sunday Morning with Bae” is really a description of pace. The kind where conversation doesn’t have to perform. Where you can listen to the lid click back onto a cup, watch ice hover in coffee like small, drifting stones, and feel the day start to settle into its own shape.

Brooklyn has a way of making the mundane feel worth noticing. Not because it’s flashy, but because it’s lived-in. The table has marks, the pavement has cracks, and the morning has that soft, unhurried hush—like the world is letting you keep something for yourself before the week begins.

We stayed there a little longer than necessary. Which, on Sundays, feels exactly right.

Double Date Night Zangel and Terhannahsaurus

The city was dark and loud in the distance, but down by the water everything felt softer—like the river was doing its own kind of talking, translating the skyline into little ripples of light.

Double date night with Zangel and Terhannahsaurus had that rare balance: the comfort of being with people who know your jokes, and the small adventure of letting the evening take its time. We wandered along the railing, the bridge arching behind us like a black silhouette, and the towers across the way blinking steadily as if they’d been waiting all day to be seen.

Somewhere between the glow of the buildings and the hush that settles when you finally stop rushing, the night turned simple. An arm around a shoulder. A quick kiss on the cheek. The kind of affection that doesn’t need to be announced because the whole scene already feels like a postcard you can step into.

Brooklyn always does that—puts you in the middle of something huge and still makes space for the small things. The water, the lights, the steady span of the bridge: all of it holding the moment up like it mattered.

Later, walking back, I kept thinking about how certain places keep your memories without asking for anything in return. You leave, and the skyline stays. But the night follows you home anyway.

Day off and a nice scallop salad for lunch

A day off can feel like a small room you didn’t know you needed—quiet, bright at the edges, and suddenly spacious.

Lunch arrived the same way. A scallop salad set down on a café table: three seared scallops with their dark, crisp edges and soft centers, a tumble of greens and shaved vegetables, grapes and citrus catching the light, a ribbon of balsamic pulling everything together. Nothing loud, nothing trying too hard—just a plate that feels settled.

I like meals like this on days when the hours aren’t spoken for. You can hear the place around you: the clink of glass, the scrape of a chair, the low city hum beyond the patio. The wine is pale and cold. The water sweats into the afternoon. For a while, time stops pushing.

There’s something comforting about simple care—good ingredients, a hot pan, a little patience. The scallops taste like they were watched over for the exact amount of time. The salad tastes like the season turning, even if you can’t name which direction.

It’s just lunch, but it also isn’t. It’s a small pause you can step into, and come back out of lighter.

Weekend Brew Time

There’s a kind of quiet that settles in on weekends—the sort that arrives without announcement and makes the ordinary feel a little more deliberate.

On the small table by the window, the scene is simple: a cold bottle of beer catching the light, a glass nearby, a few books stacked like they’ve been kept company all week. Along the sill, potted plants lean toward the day as if they’re listening. Nothing in the room is trying too hard, and somehow that’s what makes it feel cared for.

“Weekend Brew Time” sounds like a plan, but it’s more like permission. Permission to slow down, to let the afternoon stretch out, to read a few pages and then stare out the window as if the view might explain something.

I like how small rituals work this way. They don’t fix anything. They don’t need to. They just soften the edges. The bottle sweats. The glass waits. Outside, the world keeps moving, but in here it’s held at a gentler distance.

Even the plants seem to approve—steady, patient things, content to grow toward whatever light is available.

If you’re looking for a big moment, you won’t find it here. But if you’re looking for a small one—cool, bright, and unhurried—it’s already on the table.

Weekend Vaca with Boo in NOFO

The weekend in NOFO felt like the kind of pause you don’t plan, you just fall into.

The sky was a wide, soft gray—nothing dramatic, just a ceiling of cloud that made the water look steadier and more honest. We stood close at the edge of it all, shoulder to shoulder, letting the wind do what it wanted with our shirts and our hair, letting the moment be unposed even as the camera caught it.

There’s a comfort in getting away with someone you love and realizing you don’t have to fill every second. A short drive turns into a different rhythm: slower meals, longer looks, quiet jokes that only make sense to the two of you. NOFO has that effect. It doesn’t demand a checklist. It just gives you room.

I keep thinking about how places can hold feelings the way old houses hold heat—subtle, stored up, and easy to miss until you step back inside your own life. This trip wasn’t loud. It didn’t need to be. It was the simple relief of salt air, an arm around a shoulder, and the ocean stretching out like a reset button.

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Getting cheesy and wine-y

There are some afternoons that don’t ask for much. A table in the open air. Two glasses catching the light. A small board that looks simple at first and then keeps unfolding—soft cheese, thin folds of cured meat, crackers stacked like a quiet promise.

Getting cheesy and wine-y feels like a joke you repeat because it’s true. You sit down intending to “just have a little,” and then the minutes stretch out, loosening at the edges. The chilled glass sweats. The wood table holds old rings and new ones. Conversation takes its time.

I love how food like this makes its own weather. Nothing is rushed. You break a cracker, you cut into the cheese, you find the exact bite that tastes like summer—salt, cream, a little tang, a little fizz. It’s not a big production, but it feels like an occasion anyway.

And maybe that’s the point of a girls weekend: not doing something extraordinary, but letting the ordinary become brighter and bigger for a while. The kind of easy gathering you remember later, not because it was perfect, but because it was settled—good company, good wine, and a table that didn’t need anything else.

Happy Birthday Stephen

There are days that feel like they’ve been waiting for you—already warm, already humming, already a little quieter than the ones that came before. A wicker table sits between us like a small stage, and on it: slate boards, pale gold and blush pink poured into glasses, the faint ring of condensation, a phone set down as if we all agreed to stop keeping time for a while.

Happy Birthday Stephen. It’s a simple sentence, the kind that doesn’t need dressing up, because the best parts are in the pauses around it—the way everyone leans in, the way a hand hovers over a glass before choosing, the way conversation keeps circling back like it doesn’t want the afternoon to end.

Somewhere out on the North Fork, the world feels both ordinary and slightly more mysterious. Not because anything dramatic happens, but because the familiar things—wine, friends, a table in the open air—start to glow when you notice them.

We taste and compare. We decide one is brighter, another softer, another tastes like summer trying to linger. The slate boards look serious, but the mood isn’t. The day is light. The laughter is unforced.

Birthdays can be loud, but this one is all texture: woven patterns under our elbows, glass against glass, the slow comfort of being exactly where you are.

Here’s to Stephen—another year, another small, perfect afternoon worth keeping.

Morning Light on my Green Buddies

The morning comes in softly through the glass and lands where it always seems to find its way: on the quiet things that keep living beside you.

Three small terracotta pots sit along the windowsill, warmed by that early light. A tall, upright plant holds its lines like a patient sentinel. Next to it, a jade plant stretches out in branching arcs, each leaf catching a pale glow as if it’s storing the moment for later. In front, a smaller plant shows a blush of red at the edges, a reminder that even indoors, seasons still speak.

There’s something steady about houseplants in the morning. They don’t rush. They don’t ask for much. They just lean toward the sun and keep their small promises. The windowsill becomes a little boundary where two worlds press up against each other: the bright day outside and the lived-in calm inside.

I like noticing how ordinary objects start to feel like part of the home’s memory. The saucers, the soil smudges, the way the light moves a few inches each hour. Even the rough crystal tucked at the edge of the frame feels like it belongs there, as if the house arranged it over time.

Morning light doesn’t change everything, but it does make the familiar feel briefly new—and that’s often enough.

My baby is sooooo handsome

My baby is sooooo handsome.

He’s the kind of handsome that doesn’t try too hard. Just a tri-color face turned slightly toward the window, ears caught between perked and relaxed, like he’s listening to the house breathe. The tag on his collar taps softly when he shifts, a tiny chime in a quiet room.

I took this photo and realized how much of loving a dog is learning their still moments. Not the sprinting, not the chaos—just the pause. The look that says he knows his name, he knows his people, and he’s deciding whether to be brave or be cuddled.

Some days the world feels loud and over-lit. Then a dog settles into the blanket like it was always meant to be there, and the room becomes its own small weather system—warm, steady, and familiar. If you’ve ever looked at your pup and felt your chest soften for no logical reason, you’ll understand this picture.

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Dream Golden Flatware

Two black cases sit open on a wooden table, each one holding a small, quiet luxury: gold-toned flatware arranged like it’s been waiting for a moment to arrive.

I keep thinking about how objects like this change a room before anyone even speaks. The soft shine catches whatever light is already there and makes it feel warmer, a little more intentional. In a way, it’s the opposite of clutter—everything has a place, every fork and spoon lined up, calm and orderly.

The name, Dream Golden Flatware, fits. Not because it’s extravagant, but because it hints at the kind of life where you slow down long enough to notice the weight of a spoon, the clean edge of a knife, the simple pleasure of setting a table as if it matters.

I imagine these pieces in Williamsburg, tucked into a small apartment kitchen, brought out when friends come over and the evening stretches. The kind of gathering where the food is good, but the real point is the lingering—stories piling up, plates being passed back, the room gradually softening into something familiar.

Maybe that’s what we’re really buying when we choose beautiful tools: a small invitation to be present. To make the ordinary feel settled and bright.

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