Getting cheesy and wine-y

There are some afternoons that don’t ask for much. A table in the open air. Two glasses catching the light. A small board that looks simple at first and then keeps unfolding—soft cheese, thin folds of cured meat, crackers stacked like a quiet promise.

Getting cheesy and wine-y feels like a joke you repeat because it’s true. You sit down intending to “just have a little,” and then the minutes stretch out, loosening at the edges. The chilled glass sweats. The wood table holds old rings and new ones. Conversation takes its time.

I love how food like this makes its own weather. Nothing is rushed. You break a cracker, you cut into the cheese, you find the exact bite that tastes like summer—salt, cream, a little tang, a little fizz. It’s not a big production, but it feels like an occasion anyway.

And maybe that’s the point of a girls weekend: not doing something extraordinary, but letting the ordinary become brighter and bigger for a while. The kind of easy gathering you remember later, not because it was perfect, but because it was settled—good company, good wine, and a table that didn’t need anything else.

Ummm Rosé Season came hard

There’s a certain kind of light that shows up when the weather turns—soft, a little golden, like the day is finally willing to linger. And somehow it always ends the same way: standing in front of a glass-door fridge, staring at rows of rosé like it’s a small, pink promise.

Ummm Rosé Season came hard.

The bottles line up neatly behind the cold glass, labels facing forward, blush tones stacked in gradients from pale peach to deeper strawberry. It feels almost ceremonial, like the store is quietly acknowledging a shift: the heavy reds step back, and something brighter takes the front.

I like the way a chilled case hums—steady, practical—while the colors inside look like summer trying to break through. It’s simple, but it carries that familiar feeling of seasons changing: a little anticipation, a little relief. The same world, just edited by temperature and light.

Maybe that’s the whole point of rosé season. Not the drink itself, exactly, but the permission it gives. To sit outside longer. To eat slower. To let an ordinary evening feel like it has edges worth remembering.

So yes—came hard. And honestly, I’m not mad about it.

30th Bday with Bae, My 2017 Birthday Celebration

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| For my 30th birthday in 2017, I was told I had to “do it big”. A concept I have never really been into for my birthday celebrations. However, being the big three zero, I decided to give it a shot.

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Burger Brunch Booyah!

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| Wow, what can I say, this burger was worth all the hype at David’s Cafe! The Burger Queen Deluxe is a double patty with American cheese, pickles, lettuce, tomato and a special sauce.
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Weekend means Morning Coffee so Gimme

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| Gimme that coffee please! Angel and I have been in our new apartment for several months now and we have been an a quest for a new coffee place.
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Usagi and Mooshi Time at Tokyo Record Bar

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| Accidentally, Mikey (Usagi) and I (Mooshi) made reservations at one of 2017 summer’s most trendy restaurants, Tokyo Record Bar. There are a few interesting gimmicks about this eatery:
First, it is a small Japanese style restaurant that has the feel of  “small & off the beaten path”.
The location itself is the basement of a champagne bar in NYU-town and only seats about 14 people. To enter the bar you must be lead through a champagne bar, down a small set of stairs, and into a small 8×10 foot room.  At the beginning of your meal each person at your table chooses a song from a playlist that will be played through the meal. An in-house DJ will compile the songs into a playlist and the fun starts. For the record, pun intended, I chose the song “Creep” by TLC. The locations serves two seatings a night and the entire meal is coursed, without substitutions. I will not spoil the last course for you, but it is not your typical Japanese dish. Overall the experience was good and I give it a B+ rating. I do think the art painted on the walls is especially good; there are even mountains that look like breast. However I think the fox in kimono stole the show in the whimsey department.
The food was not 5-star quality and wish the restaurant would have played more into storytelling that they did at the beginning and end of the meal. That being said, the price was right, but still prevented this from being an “A” in my book. I would still recommend the experience of a Japanese style pub, especially when given the changes to enjoy some music on vinyl.
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Avocado Toast & Local Crottin Cheese

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| Today was another exciting day to make a variation on Avocado toast. This toast was made with all local Ingredients, mostly from the Greenpoint Greenmarket. This toast was built special starting with Cheese from Cheval Farmstead Dairy and topped with micro greens from Two Guys from Woodbridge.
 
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“Sounds” like a great weekend

The Sound has a way of making time feel slower, as if the day is asking you to stay a little longer.

The sky was a soft sheet of gray, stretched wide and calm. Below it, the water held that same quiet color—neither stormy nor bright, just steady, like it had nowhere else to be. The shoreline curled away into sand and stones, the kind you step around without thinking until you notice how each one has its own worn shape, made patient by the tide.

Some weekends don’t need much of an itinerary. A bottle opened between friends. A few cups poured without ceremony. The simple work of standing still and watching the horizon.

I like places like this because they remind me how many worlds can exist at once: the busy one you came from, and the quieter one that’s been here the whole time. If you listen long enough, you can almost hear one pressing up against the other.

It “sounds” like a great weekend because it was—uncomplicated, a little salty in the air, and full of the kind of silence you don’t rush to fill.

Wine first, Service second

There’s a particular kind of calm that settles over a vineyard when the sky can’t decide what it wants to be. The clouds hang low and heavy, the rows of vines run on like quiet sentences, and a small wooden deck becomes its own little world.

A shade sail stretches above the table like a soft, taut promise—just enough shelter to keep the afternoon unhurried. A handful of people lean in toward one another, glasses raised, mid-story. It’s casual, almost ordinary, but the ordinary is where the best things tend to hide.

Wine first, service second—at first it sounds like a joke. But it’s also a small truth. The wine is the anchor; everything else should simply get out of the way. On days like this, you don’t need a performance. You need a pour that tastes like the place it came from, and a table that lets you stay a little longer than you planned.

I think that’s what good service really is: not hovering, not interrupting, not rushing the moment to its conclusion. Just giving the day enough room to unfold—vineyard in the distance, weather overhead, wood beneath your feet, and chardonnay catching whatever light the clouds are willing to spare.

End of a Winey Weekend

The weekend ended the way some weekends do—slowly, in the soft middle space between one last pour and the drive home.

We were out among the rows of vines on the North Fork, where the green feels patient and the air has that quiet, worked-in kind of calm. Someone sits on a set of painted picnic benches, glass in hand, smiling like they’re keeping a small secret. The colors beneath them look almost childlike, like something meant for a playground, but here they belong to the day: bright stripes against grass and trellis lines.

There’s a particular comfort to vineyards. They’re orderly without being stiff. You can hear the place living—leaves shifting, distant voices, the thin clink of glass—while time moves at a different pace. It’s easy to let the weekend stretch longer than it should, to pretend the week ahead is only a rumor.

By the end, though, the sweetness turns reflective. Not sad, just settled. Like closing a door gently instead of letting it swing.

If you’ve ever tried to hold on to a Sunday afternoon, you know the feeling: a small, warm ache to keep what’s good exactly where it is—sunlight, laughter, the last sip—before it becomes memory.

North fork wine country

Out on the North Fork, the afternoon feels like it’s been rinsed clean—green at the edges, bright in the middle, and slow enough to notice.

We found ourselves clustered around a small table, hands meeting in the center with plastic cups that caught the light. There’s something disarming about tasting like this: no ceremony, no script, just a shared pause. Someone pours. Someone laughs. The moment becomes its own little weather.

Wine country here isn’t loud. It doesn’t need to be. It sits alongside you, the way a familiar place does—letting the breeze move through and leaving room for the quiet parts of the day. Between sips, you can hear the world doing its ordinary work: leaves shifting, gravel under a chair leg, conversation rising and falling like it’s always belonged.

I tried to name what makes it feel good—maybe it’s the closeness of it, how quickly you can step from the road into something softer. Or maybe it’s that the best parts aren’t really in the glass at all, but in the small convergence of hands and attention.

Afterward, I kept thinking about how places can hold a mood. Not capture it—just make space for it to settle, for a minute, before everyone goes back to their separate directions.

North Fork Wine Country

North Fork Wine Country has a way of feeling both ordinary and a little unreal—like the day is sun-warmed at the edges, and the rest of it is quietly humming underneath.

We leaned into a weathered shingle wall, close enough to share shade and a laugh, the kind that comes easy when you’ve already decided not to rush. There’s something about wine country weekends that makes time behave differently. Minutes loosen. Conversations stretch out. Even the small moments—sitting still, shoulders touching, looking into a camera—feel like they’re holding onto you.

I like the North Fork for its softness. It isn’t trying to be a grand performance. It’s tasting rooms and back roads, the gentle clink of glasses, and that slow drift from one place to the next. Rosé tastes like summer even when summer is almost over, and the air feels like it’s been filtered through salt and fields.

Traveling together can be loud in other places—planning, lines, landmarks—but here it’s quieter. You notice textures: cedar shingles, sunlit wood, the way the afternoon settles into your clothes. You listen to one world press up against another: weekend crowds and local calm, bright smiles and the private comfort underneath them.

We came for a simple getaway. We left with that rare feeling of being more settled than when we arrived.

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