After the party closet disaster

There’s a particular kind of quiet that shows up after a party—the kind that makes even a familiar room feel a little different. The closet door is still, but the evidence has wandered out into the open: a tangle of chain, a small key, black ribbon looping over itself, and that gold headpiece slumped like a tired crown.

In the bright, honest light of morning, everything looks more deliberate than it was. The shiny pieces catch the sun and throw it back in soft reflections, as if they’re trying to remember the music. I stand there long enough to hear the apartment settle—floorboards, distant street noise, the faint hum of the day starting without us.

It’s funny how the smallest items can hold the whole night. Not the loud parts, not the blurry parts, but the in-between: laughing in a hallway, leaning into a mirror to fix one last detail, the moment you decide you’re fine to stay out five more minutes.

Later, I’ll sort the mess. I’ll unknot the chain and return the key to wherever keys are supposed to live. For now, I let the scene sit as it is: a modest still life from Williamsburg, proof that something happened here, and that it was worth cleaning up after.

D.A.N.C.E like it’s 2007

D.A.N.C.E like it’s 2007
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| A great night out dance to DJs playing the best clubbers of 2007.A Blog Haus Night at Baby’s All Right featuring Alex English, Viking, Flying Horse, Jake B. and more! ~ I had a blast and it was fun to dress up like I did a few years ago. The hangover the next morning was no joke though! HAHA Apologies on the nip-slip. I also thought I should go with surprised face this night… oh silly me.
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Walking to work in NYC will never be the same

There’s a particular rhythm to walking to work in New York—steel scaffolding overhead, the impatient shuffle of feet, the tight lane between parked cars and whatever the city is building (or rebuilding) this week. You learn the seams in the sidewalk. You learn the timing of the crosswalks. You learn to keep moving.

But lately, that familiar route feels like it’s been quietly rewired.

In this photo, the street is exactly what it has always been: a long corridor of scaffolding, a muted afternoon light, a few people ahead disappearing into the grid. And then there’s the interruption—an impossible, cartoon-bright Pokémon dropped into the real world like a daydream you can’t blink away.

It’s strange how quickly you accept it. The city has always been layered: old brick beside glass, history beside hurry, private thoughts beside public noise. Now there’s another layer, one that invites you to look down at the same pavement you’ve crossed a hundred times and feel, for a second, a little curiosity stirring.

Walking to work in NYC will never be the same—not because the streets changed, but because our attention did. The commute becomes a small hunt, the ordinary turns slightly mysterious, and the path you could walk half-asleep asks you to see it again.

Happy Birthday Weekend USA

There’s a certain kind of quiet that settles in before a celebration really begins—the moment when the space is dressed and waiting. A brick wall strung with red, white, and blue bunting. A small flag tucked into broad green leaves, like the patio itself decided to participate. The table holds the simple promises of a good weekend: chips, salsa, and a few bright details that make the ordinary feel ceremonial.

This is the part I always want to remember. Not the loudest firework or the last song of the night, but the pause in between—when the air is warm, the food is easy, and the whole city feels briefly softened by shared tradition. In NYC, even a small backyard setup can feel like its own country for an afternoon.

Everything looks a little worn-in in the best way: concrete blocks that double as stools, a cooler draped in stripes, sparklers waiting upright like a bouquet. It’s not trying too hard. It’s just making room for people.

Happy Birthday Weekend USA—here’s to the familiar comforts, the gathered friends, and the small corners of summer that feel surprisingly big.

Craving for Curry

Sometimes dinner is less of a plan and more of a pull—one craving tugging you toward something warm, familiar, and a little bit grounding. Curry does that for me. It’s not just the spice, or the steam rising up when you finally sit down; it’s the way a simple bowl can make the rest of the day go quiet.

This plate is the kind of comfort that doesn’t try too hard: a scoop of white rice, soft and plain, beside a ladle of curry filled with vegetables—potatoes and mushrooms and bits of carrot—everything simmered until it gives in. The sauce gathers around the edges like a shallow tide, staining the rice one spoonful at a time.

I like meals like this because they feel honest. You can taste the patience in them, the slow heat and the small decisions—how long to let it bubble, when to salt, when to stop. It’s the sort of dinner that makes the room feel lived-in, like the table remembers you.

If you’ve been craving curry too, consider this your reminder: you don’t need a special occasion. Just a bowl, a spoon, and a few minutes to let something simple turn the evening softer.

Happy Pride 2016

Happy Pride 2016.

From above the street, it looked like a single bright thought drifting through the city—an arc of rainbow balloons, tethered and carried forward by people moving at an easy, steady pace.

New York stacks worlds on top of each other: sun on pavement, tree branches cutting shade into pieces, a crowd pressed against barricades, and then color—so much color—passing by like a small weather system of its own. The balloons make a soft ceiling over the marchers, and the whole scene feels lighter than it should, like the city briefly remembering how to breathe.

It’s strange how a parade can feel both temporary and permanent. Temporary because it passes, because the street goes back to traffic and errands. Permanent because the image sticks: a public kindness, carried down an avenue in daylight. People showing up for each other where everyone can see.

I keep thinking about how streets collect memories the way old houses do—layer by layer. For a few blocks, the ordinary becomes something gentler. The parade keeps moving, the crowd keeps watching, and above it all that rainbow stretch holds together, floating forward as if it knows the way home.

Gay Pride weekend – it starts

Pride weekend always seems to begin the same way: with a door half-open to the night, a hallway that feels too small for the amount of anticipation in the air, and a few cups raised like a quiet agreement that we’re going to remember this.

In the middle of it all, there’s that bright, slightly unreal glow—colors louder than they look in daylight, laughter that ricochets off the walls, and the sense that the weekend is already moving faster than you are. Hell’s Kitchen has its own weather: warm bodies, music leaking through floors, and the pulse of the city pushing in from the street.

This is the part before the big crowds and the parade routes, before schedules and meeting spots and “text me when you’re close.” It’s the beginning-beginning. A small room where friends lean in, where outfits feel like declarations, where you can catch a glimpse of yourself in someone else’s grin and think, yes, this is why we came.

By tomorrow there will be glitter in places you can’t explain and a hoarse voice you’ll wear like a souvenir. Tonight is simpler. Tonight is just the start—three people framed in a quick photo, the kind you take without planning, the kind that ends up meaning more than you expect.

Missing my Boys Already Gavin & Arek

Some photos carry a whole season inside them.

This one is bright and a little ridiculous in the best way: two faces caught mid-day, softened by a playful dog filter, standing in front of a wall of posters that feels like a city talking over itself. It’s the kind of snapshot you take without thinking too much, and then later it turns into a small ache—proof that a moment was real.

“Missing my Boys Already Gavin & Arek” says it plainly. Missing has its own weather. It can show up on a busy street, in the hum between London and New York, or in the quiet after your phone slips back into your pocket. Travel makes friendships feel like constellations—same shapes, just seen from different places.

I like that the picture doesn’t try to be grand. It’s just two friends, shoulder-to-shoulder, letting the ordinary become a little stranger and sweeter for a second. That’s usually how it works: the mundane, the faded background, and then something alive in the middle of it.

Wherever you both landed after this—different time zones, different trains, different rooms—this is the reminder that you were there together. And that you’ll be again.

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