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Day 1 of Vaca at the @andazscottsdale begins the way I like a beginning to feel: slow, light, and a little hushed.

Outside, everything sits in that desert calm that makes you notice details you’d normally skip. The lawn looks too green to be real, held in by clean white walls and low, modern lines. Palms stand up like punctuation marks. A pine tree leans over the path, and even the clouds feel softened, as if the sky is speaking in a lower voice today.

Coffee in the morning does that for me. It doesn’t just wake me up—it gives the day edges. Something warm in your hands while you watch a place you don’t belong to (yet) become familiar. I like that first-day feeling: the quiet inventory of where the doors lead, what the air smells like, how far the walk is from room to courtyard.

There’s a kind of peace that comes from being away, but not rushing. Let the minutes stretch. Let the morning settle. Let the simple scene—green grass, white stucco, tall trees, a muted sky—be enough.

If this is how day one looks, I’m happy to see what the rest of the week sounds like.

A plate can feel like a postcard from the coast: sturdy toast, a cool green smear of avocado, two eggs glowing like small suns. The kind of breakfast that doesn’t announce itself—just sits there, quietly convincing you to stay seated a little longer.

The table is dark wood and morning clutter: water glasses catching the light, a mug of coffee with its soft, milky swirl, and—across the way—waffles dressed up with whipped cream and raspberries. Savory and sweet sharing the same space, like two songs you didn’t expect to like back-to-back.

This is the charm of Avocado West Coast Toast. It’s simple in the way good things are simple: crisp bread, creamy avocado, warm yolk that turns everything into sauce. A pinch of seasoning, a few greens, and you’re done.

If you want to make it at home, toast something with backbone. Mash ripe avocado with salt and a squeeze of lemon. Cook the eggs until the edges set but the centers stay soft. Stack, sit, sip your coffee, and let the day wait outside for a minute.

Image: Avocado Toast with Eggs & Coffee

Vacation doesn’t always start with a boarding pass. Sometimes it starts with the quiet click of blinds, sunlight spilling across a windowsill, and a few houseplants leaning toward the day like they’ve been waiting for you.

This morning, home feels settled in that particular way—lived-in, not cluttered; familiar, but still capable of surprise. The city outside the glass is washed out and distant, while inside the small things come forward: terracotta pots lined in a row, a little stack of books, and an iced coffee sweating gently beside a croissant.

I’m calling it a vacation because it asks the same thing of me that travel does: slow down, notice, be present. The plants don’t need much beyond light and a little water, but they change the whole room anyway. The books sit there like unopened doors. The coffee is cold and sweet and steady, the kind of drink you can sip without checking the clock.

I used to think rest had to be earned with miles. Lately I’m learning it can be made, right here—by clearing a corner, letting the sun in, and giving myself permission to linger.

Today’s itinerary is simple: read a little, breathe a little, and let the ordinary feel bright.

Cherry Point has a way of making the week feel finished.

Once again at Cherry Point for Friday Burgers—no big announcement, no special occasion. Just the familiar marble tabletop, the white plates, and the quiet certainty that the simplest rituals are the ones that stick.

The burgers arrived the way you want them to: sesame buns, cut in half like someone expects you to share, cheese slumped into all the right corners. Across the table, a grilled fish plate looked almost restrained—dark sear marks, a pale dollop of sauce, and a small heap of pickled vegetables that tasted bright enough to wake up the whole meal.

There’s something comforting about returning to the same place and finding it unchanged, like the room has been waiting for you. The week had its noise, its screens, its little weather systems of stress. But here, the only thing to do is eat while the heat leaves the food and the conversation warms up.

Friday burgers aren’t a tradition because they’re fancy. They’re a tradition because they’re reliable. And sometimes that’s all you need: good bread, something grilled, and the sense that you’ve arrived exactly where you’re supposed to be.

Brunch with Hannah and some People felt like one of those small city mornings where time loosens its grip.

The table was crowded in the best way—eggs Benedict resting on a bed of greens, a plate of fruit and toast dusted with sweetness, ribbons of prosciutto beside melon, and a sweating plastic cup of iced coffee that kept turning my hands cold. A glass of water caught the light and held it, clear and ordinary, like it was trying to be remembered.

NoLita can be loud if you let it, but from this seat it was softer. The kind of softness you notice when you stop talking for a second and just listen: forks against plates, chairs shifting, the low pulse of the street outside. One world pushing up against another.

I like meals like this because they don’t ask for anything dramatic. Just the simple proof that people showed up. That we sat close, passed plates, and made space for one another in between sips and bites.

When we finally stood to leave, the food was gone and the chatter kept going—spilling out the door with us, back into the day.

Memorial Day Weekend has its own kind of weather—bright, loud, full of errands and arrivals. But the best moments are the quiet ones, when everyone finally gathers in the same room and the pace softens.

This Family Seafood Yosenabe Memorial Day Weekend started long before the broth simmered. It began with arranging everything neatly in the pot, like setting a table in miniature: pale tofu, stacked vegetables, mushrooms clustered like little umbrellas, and the ocean-heavy promise of shrimp, clams, scallops, and fish.

Before the heat, it looks almost still—orderly and simple. Then the steam comes and the edges blur. The broth takes on its own voice, and the ingredients loosen and drift, each one giving up a little of itself. The seafood turns tender. The vegetables go sweet. The kitchen smells like comfort and distance at the same time.

We ate slowly, letting the pot stay at the center of the table the way a good weekend should. Between refills and passing bowls, there was that familiar feeling: not a big celebration, not a speech—just the steady warmth of being together, letting the minutes stretch out.

When the last ladle scraped the bottom, it felt like the holiday had finally arrived.

There’s a certain kind of quiet that sits on a lawn before people arrive. Rows of white chairs face outward, not toward a stage, but toward distance—blue water and low hills, the kind of view that makes conversation slow down without anyone noticing.

The EIleen Fisher Service Awards luncheon was held at a New York mansion, and the setting felt like part of the message. Service isn’t loud. It’s steady. It’s the work that holds a place together the way stone holds the edge of a terrace—practical, unglamorous, and somehow beautiful when you stop to look.

I kept thinking about how spaces carry memory. A balustrade worn smooth, a path that curves where feet have chosen it over time, the shade of an old tree that’s been offering cover long before today’s seating. You can feel a property “living” when it’s cared for—maintained, but not sterilized.

At an awards luncheon, it’s easy to focus on the moment of recognition: the names, the applause, the small swell of pride. But the wider truth is that service is mostly invisible—like the breeze off the water, like the way sunlight shifts across the terrace stones while everyone is busy being present.

By the time the seats filled, the place didn’t change so much as it revealed what it was built for: gathering, gratitude, and a view that reminds you there’s more beyond the edge of any single day.

The table was dark wood and warm light, the kind that makes everything feel a little softer at the edges. A candle flickered in glass, and beside it the quiet shine of water goblets and a cocktail—simple things, arranged like a small ceremony.

Dinner at the Gatsby had that unhurried date-night rhythm: forks resting between bites, conversation stretching out in the pauses. One plate came creamy and speckled with herbs, comfort in a wide white bowl. Another was a mound of rice dotted with seafood, the kind of dish that smells like butter and the sea and makes you slow down without trying.

There are nights that don’t need a big plan. You show up, you sit close, you let the room do what it’s good at—dim lights, clinking glass, and the steady reassurance of a meal that tastes like someone cared.

Walking away, I kept thinking about how the smallest details hold the most weight: a candle, a shared plate, the familiar feeling of being exactly where you are.

The evening slowed down the way it always does when you don’t rush it—lights softening, voices getting quieter, the last bit of dinner settling into that warm, contented hush.

At Manatawny Still Works, we ordered after-dinner cocktails and let the night stretch out a little longer. One drink came in a wide coupe, amber and glossy, a long ribbon of citrus curling across the surface like a thought you keep returning to. The other sat close by with ice and a pale glow, the kind of cocktail that looks like it’s holding a small, private weather system.

There’s something comforting about the small rituals: the condensation on the glass, the first sip that tastes sharper than you expected, the way the room’s hum becomes background music once you’re across from the person you came with. It’s not loud celebration; it’s the quiet kind of fun—two people sharing a table, making a simple moment feel kept.

We lingered until the conversation ran thin in the best way, like a good story reaching its last page. Then we stepped back out, carrying that faint sweetness and citrus on our breath, grateful for a place that knows how to make the end of the day feel like its own little beginning.

We called it dinner for two, but it felt more like a small ceremony: first time making sushi and keeping it vegan.

On the plate, the rolls sat in a neat row like little cut cross-sections of patience. Dark seaweed wrapped around a speckled mix of grains, with bright pieces tucked inside. Beside them were sweet potato wedges, roasted until the edges went dark and a little crisp. A bowl of edamame waited nearby, still warm, like something to hold between attempts.

Making sushi for the first time is mostly learning how to move slowly. The rice (or, in our case, a grainy stand-in) sticks to your fingers, the nori wants to curl back into itself, and your knife teaches you what “sharp” really means. But somewhere in the middle of the awkward rolling and re-rolling, you start to feel the rhythm of it.

Vegan sushi is forgiving that way. You can fill it with what you have: avocado, cucumber, carrots, roasted sweet potato—anything that tastes clean and bright. It’s less about perfect pieces and more about the quiet satisfaction of making something by hand, then sitting down to eat it while it’s still a little warm.

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